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Nonverbal bids for connection can work, but as Dr. John Gottman notes, only “as long as you are both clear about what message you’re sending or receiving.” Ask yourself: Do you know your partner's go-to move? Is it a smile from across the table? Do they cuddle close at bedtime? How about you? Are you sure your partner knows what you’re asking for? | The Gottman Institute

Affairs can actually save your marriage? I’m beyond honoured to welcome back John and Julie Gottman for round two on The Diary Of A CEO. In our first conversation, we learned how to strengthen existing relationships, but today, the focus is on new beginnings. The couple are professional relationship researchers that have published over 200 academic journal articles and 46 books. They are the co-founders of The Gottman Institute and Love Lab. We cover: - A story about a man who had 57 affairs. -