Want to stop fights before they even start? Ask your partner this one question. Most people wait until their partner has completely shut down to realize something's wrong. By then you're already in cleanup mode. The move is catching it earlier. Learning the specific tell that shows when they're starting to check out. For some people it's tone, for others it's distance, for others it's this fake agreeableness that feels worse than a fight. If you know what that looks like for your partner you can